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Phoenix, Maricopa County, Arizona
30+ days ago
A close relative lost and their 2 kids, between ages 0-2. They are in foster care & looking for an adoptive family. I know the chances of them being adopted together are very low (They already mentioned separating them) & even separated they could still be in the system for years before being adopted. Ive seen first hand how terrible it all can be & do not want these sweet kids to have to go through that. My husband &I would love to adopt them but we already have 1,3 and 5 year old toddler boys. I have had all 5 of them together quite often & besides small arguments between the youngest 2 girls & my 3 year old they generally get along well.
A few issues I am worried about are:
• The chance that they might endanger my toddlers - They are very sweet kids & their temperaments have improved dramatically since being in foster care but they have been somewhat aggressive in the past.
• Space - We own a3 bedroom home currently but are searching for a larger house. DHS said they may be able to make an exception since we are relatives. The girls would still have more space than they ever have before.
My husband has a good job & we have good health insurance so financially we may need to be a little more frugal but it shouldn’t cause any problems. We have always wanted to adopt a sibling group but ideally younger than our biological children and once we have bought a larger house & farm. Are we crazy for wanting to do this? Do you think it would be a good or bad idea for our family?
I would love to hear input especially from adoptive parents, adoptive siblings & adoptees!
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Adopting siblings can be a wonderful experience, as it helps maintain their bond and provides a sense of family unity. However, it’s essential to consider the dynamics of your existing family and how the children will blend into it. Many families report positive experiences when adopting sibling groups.
It’s important to understand that children in foster care may have experienced trauma, which can affect their behavior. Past aggression can sometimes resurface, but with patience, love, and proper guidance, many children show significant improvement in their behavior over time.
While you currently have a 3 bedroom home, it’s great to know that you are actively looking for a larger space. The Department of Human Services (DHS) may provide some flexibility when it comes to housing requirements, especially for relatives.
Adoption can come with costs, but many families find that they can manage these expenses, particularly if they have steady incomes and good health insurance. It's advisable to have a financial plan that allows you to continue providing for your biological and adopted children without strain.
Safety is always a primary concern for any family. Open communication with your partner, as well as consultations with professionals such as adoptive parents and social workers, can help you gauge the appropriateness of the adoption. Creating a safe and nurturing environment is key.
Consider joining local or online support groups where you can connect with other adoptive families. Hearing firsthand experiences and advice can provide you with valuable insights as you navigate this journey.
Ultimately, the decision to adopt is personal and should reflect what is best for your family as a whole. Reflect on your family's values, capacity, and desire to integrate new children into your home. Seek counsel from both partners and trusted friends or family.
The first steps typically include contacting your local adoption agency or DHS, completing a home study, and undergoing training designed for adoptive families. It’s beneficial to be prepared and informed about what the process entails.
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